A typical concern from solitary males: If i’m perhaps not actually interested in a godly girl, must I nevertheless attempt to romantically pursue her in order to develop those emotions? In that case, for the length of time: until it becomes unwise and even hurtful?
We don’t encourage a child to pursue a godly girl romantically if he does not feel real attraction at that time. But i actually do adamantly encourage young solitary guys to pursue godly ladies for friendships within the hopes so it grows into more.
“The tradition informs us attraction that is physical very very very first, then character, godliness, and compatibility follow. I do believe it is got by us backwards. ”
I did so a marriage a year ago of 1 guy that spent time inside my home and that has been around Lauren and me personally a great deal, in which he saw a woman that is young our church that has been faithful to see or watch the father and a godly girl — nevertheless the real piece wasn’t here. But he adored spending time with her. Therefore, i simply encouraged him in which to stay proximity, to develop inside the relationship with her, also to hope one thing would develop after that. Continue reading Can I Date a Godly Girl I Actually Do Not Find Attractive?